I haven't used the below mentioned "tip" (if you will) in a while, but it works... I may have to add to this post at a later date. As women, I think we have lots of ways to persuade our husbands to do the things we want, right? ;)One of the tricks that I think is good
("good" meaning "an idea beneficial to me" not necessarily meaning "a healthy way to interact in a marriage") is a way that I've found to get Jason to practically beg to do his honey-do list.
And the secret is:
attempt home renovations on your own.
From trying to tackle a plumbing issue to things as simple as hanging a picture on a wall, if it's something you don't want to do (
or don't feel you should have to do) then call your hubbie at work and innocently ask for something ominous-sounding.
For example:
Say the project is changing out an ugly, dated faucet to a more modern, appealing one. You've asked your significant other time and time again to do it, but he's always too busy or too tired.
You wanna get that chore bumped to the top of the "must do" list? Then a phone conversation like the following might be in order...
Wife: Hey, babe, where's that thingy you use to shut off the water at the street? Ya know what I mean? That tool that shuts off the water so you can't accidentally flood anything???
Husband: Why?
Wife: Oh, I'm trying to be helpful and gonna tackle changing out that faucet.
Husband: Um, why don't you leave that to me? I'll do it this weekend.
Wife: Well, I know you say you'll do it this weekend, but you've been saying that for several months. And I know you're just really really busy on the weekends and tired after work. So I'm gonna give it a shot. The best way to learn is to try, right?
Husband: Honey, just leave it. I'll do it.
Wife: I'm just about to start. I know this is something that's only important to me. And it really shouldn't have to be your problem. I'm sure can do it. I just need the water-shut-off thingy.
Husband: It is important to me. I swear. I'll do it tonight!! Just leave it!
Wife: [
not sounding sarcastic] Are you sure? I don't want to bother you. I know you're busy.
Husband: It's not a problem. Really. I'll do it after the kids go to bed.
Wife: Ok. If you're sure...
:)
And that, ladies, is how it's done. :)
Picture hanging... The lead-in question can be something like...
"How important is it to find a stud before nailing into the wall?"
or
"How hard is it to spackle over a hole in the wall if you hang a picture in the wrong place?"