or Shirley B. or Ma-Maw... We've called her all of the above when referencing the old lady who rocks the babies in the nursery at church.
She was the 2nd employee at ParkwayHills. Ever. And has rocked babies and given parents fits for the last 20+ years.
Mrs. Shirley is faithful and dependable. She shows up every week on Sundays... and sometimes on Mondays and Wednesdays too. If ever you drop your baby off and she's not there, you know something's up.
Mrs. Shirley is also infamous for being opinionated and not mincing words... or caring too much about coddling new mothers. She likes things the way she likes them-- and she DOESN'T like tights, headbands, or buttons. She wants your babies bare-legged, non-accessorized, and-- for crying out loud-- make sure the crotch of your child's outfit SNAPS and not BUTTONS. And everything needs to be labeled in your diaper bag. (Although that doesn't assure you that you will always come home with your stuff.)
I remember sheepishly dropping Sarah off in her room when she was just a few months old and hoping that she'd be a sweet baby. (I wanted everyone to love her and talk about how sweet that McGlamery baby was. Even though I knew she was a FUSSY little thing.) I picked her up at the end of the service and asked with a big smile, "How was she? I hope she was good for you, Mrs. Shirley."
"She was terrible. Cried the whole time. Boy, she doesn't like anything does she? She's a stinker."
I'd continue to get that report for the rest of Sarah's time in her class... Then again when I brought Jack... and Caroline was a "stinker" too.
My sweet friend, Hillary, had the worst baby by far, though, according to Mrs. Shirley. Stories about Raleigh screaming are legendary.
I've worked with Mrs. Shirley before and she's a really easy person to talk to. Opinionated. But easy to talk to. And now she brags on my kids.. "What sweethearts they've turned out to be. Because you know, Julie, they were terrible babies. Just terrible." :)
A month ago I worked in the room next to Mrs. Shirley. She brought a picture of her first great grandbaby to me. She was smiling from ear to ear and told me that he'd be here soon to see her. And when he came and she held him, I saw that sweet great grandmotherly love come out in her. She beamed.
Mrs. Shirley died Saturday morning.
I found out this morning at church and felt like I had the wind knocked out of me. It was so shocking. She had flu-like symptoms, intended to go to the doctor on Monday, but died on Saturday.
She loved our babies.
Was she warm and fuzzy? Not really, no.
Did she tell it like she saw it? Absolutely.
Would I ever want to be on her bad side? No ma'am, I would not.
But she held our babies so that we could worship God. She took the bows off and stripped off their tights and lost their pacifiers sometimes, but while she was doing that, we were able to take a break and focus on Christ.
Her work was a ministry.
When was the last time SHE got to go to a worship service? When was the last time I thanked her?
"To be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord." And I'm grateful for that truth.
I'm also grateful for you, Mrs. Shirley. Thank you for holding Sarah and Jack and Caroline. Thank you for being a faithful nursery worker. We love you and know that Christ is honoring you because the work you did "for the least of these you did for Him." We'll see you again in Eternity. I'm glad you're home.